Tag: happiness

  • A List of Lists for You to Make

    A List of Lists for You to Make

    I love lists. I love reading them, creating them, and getting inspired by them. There’s just something so efficient about receiving information in list form. Each item on the list is like a bite-sized nugget of information that is easy to swallow and digest. Even if an article is lengthy, it seems to somehow be easier to absorb the information if it’s organized as a list. AListofLists

    In keeping with this spirit, I’ve created a short list of lists for you to make. When you are feeling uninspired, and life feels tough, start working on these lists. Add to them, read what you’ve previously written, and keep them stored in your phone so you can always find them.

    The Gratitude List
    Everyone talks about being grateful, and remembering to give thanks each day, but how many people truly practice the act of gratitude? I know that I didn’t appreciate the concept of gratitude until I started taking inventory of everything that makes me feel grateful each day. Four years ago, I started a gratitude list in the Notes section of my iPhone. I started with just a few items on my list, but before long, I had hundreds of items on the list. Some of the items weren’t particularly deep. I had material things on the list— like a new handbag, but I also had experiences and people on the list. When I was going through a particularly tough time, the list made me smile and reminded me of all that I have in my life. A gratitude list is a good list to keep. I highly recommend it.

    The “Already-Done” List
    I am a big fan of To-Do lists. They keep me on track and provide structure to my daily life. But for the purpose of inspiring and lifting your spirits, I encourage you to create an “already-done” list. What is an already-done list? Well, it’s simply a list of your accomplishments over the past year. Think about everything that you’ve managed to get done, and give yourself credit! You do so much. You rock. Take note of it today. In the same way that you might make a list of New Year’s resolutions for the coming year to go to the gym, eat more vegetables, and get more sleep, go ahead and make a list of things that you’ve accomplished in the past 12 months. Get inspired by your own actions!

    The Happiness List
    When you’re feeling blah, turn to your happiness list. Think of everything that makes you happy, and start making your list. Here are just a few things on my own list that make me happy: ice cream, sunsets, fresh sheets on the bed, and an uninterrupted afternoon in the bookstore. You might find yourself smiling as you create your own list.

    The If-Money-Were-No-Object List
    Make a list of everything that you would choose to do if money were no object. Ignore your budget, and ignore your current responsibilities. Just imagine what you’d do. Maybe you’d get a pilot’s license and buy your own plane. Maybe you’d travel to the top 50 spas in the world in search of the best massage. Enjoy this fun exercise that will make you smile and give you a glimpse into your wildest dreams.

    The Instant-Mood-Booster List
    This is a list that you should create when you are feeling vibrant and happy. Think about all of the things that put you in a good mood instantly, and write them all down. When life gets tough, turn to this list, and see if you can incorporate one of your own suggestions into your life. Your list will be specific to you! I know that I feel happier instantly when I declutter my desk or bedside table. I also know that 30-minutes of cardiovascular exercise puts me in a good mood, as well as a trip to the hair salon, a new book or dinner with friends.

  • Every Day Matters; Everyday Matters

    Every Day Matters; Everyday Matters

    “What you do every day matters more than what you do once in a while.” — Gretchen Rubin

    I found myself nodding in agreement this morning as I read this quote. The everyday habits (or at least the ones we do on a frequent basis) are what define us, not the occasional experiences.

    Think about this quote, and use it to assess your own life. Allow it to inspire you!

    What are YOU doing every day?

    Do your daily habits reflect the kind of life that you want to be living?

    Do your daily habits reflect who you think you are as a person?

    What changes can you implement in your life to become the person you have been envisioning all along?

    Today, I encourage you to find a few minutes to take stock of your life. Make a list of your frequent/daily activities. Are you prioritizing the important things? The hobbies that bring you joy? The people who matter most? The tasks that help you live the healthiest life you can live?

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  • A Fresh Look at Fitness

    A Fresh Look at Fitness

    I went for a run today and had an unexpected realization. Within 30 seconds of putting my headphones on, zipping up my hooded sweatshirt, and starting my stopwatch, I had a series of thoughts and flashbacks that stopped me in my tracks. For some odd reason, I was momentarily transported back in time to the summer that I spent at my grandmother’s house in Japan when I was Mechanical stopwatcheight years old. I suddenly remembered the voice that I heard over a megaphone every morning, announcing the daily exercises that would soon begin at the park. And then I remembered the steady stream of neighbors, young and old, stepping out of their little homes and walking toward the field. No one was wearing a stopwatch. No one was displaying strong, “go get ‘em” attitudes. This was just a way of life, and there was no competition or sense of urgency associated with participating in this routine. If you were well, you got yourself up out of bed and went to exercise with everyone else.

    As I stood on the pavement in the present moment, I longed for that incredible feeling of wanting to exercise as a way of life, not as a means to an end. I just wanted to jog because it felt good. I didn’t want to look at my stopwatch. I didn’t care how quickly I could cover the same distance repeatedly.

    We live in a culture of 30-day weight loss plans, 60-day intense training programs, road races, timed obstacle courses and 7-day jumpstart programs. All of these things are wonderful fitness tools, but maybe it would be enjoyable to just get back to the mindset of moving our bodies for the sake of wellness.

    In this game called life, none of us are getting out alive. The goal is to make our time here on Earth healthy and enjoyable—to balance our life activities so that we spend the vast majority of our time LIVING rather than dying.

    What’s the point of making exercise such a painful, dreadful experience? For most of us, the goal is not to become an elite level athlete. We just want to feel good, look good and maintain a healthy lifestyle. Can’t we just achieve all of that with moderation?

    This week, I challenge you to approach your exercise routine with a different mindset. Exercise only because it feels good. When it stops feeling good, go do something else. Jog until it isn’t fun. When jogging isn’t fun anymore, grab a jump rope. When jumping rope isn’t fun, walk. When walking isn’t fun, go stretch, lift, tumble or balance. Do something! And do it only for as long as you perceive it to be fun. The second it stops being fun, it stops being sustainable. Practice moving for fun so that exercise can become a natural part of life. Remove the stress and the competition for one week, and see how you feel.