Tag: fear

  • Introduction to Dropbacks

    Introduction to Dropbacks

    I originally created this four-step photo tutorial for my Instagram account, but I decided today that it was worthwhile to also post it to the website. I am always looking for new and creative ways to use my yoga blocks. Here is an unconventional, but very useful way to deepen your practice with a bit of help from a block.IntrotoDropbacks

    Dropping back into any kind of backbend can be terrifying the first time. Trust me, I get it. I’ve had visions of splitting my head open, and of course, breaking my neck. Hopefully, this post will alleviate some of your fears. Rather than starting with a traditional yoga dropback, which begins in a standing position and ends in wheel pose, I recommend starting a bit closer to the ground with a camel dropback.

    If you freak out half way through the tutorial, you can simply reach your hands to the mat on either side of you. Not a big deal. This tutorial will help you build confidence at YOUR pace.

    In my own experience, I’ve found it to be much more of an accessible feat to drop back if the process is broken down into baby steps. Rather than starting with the goal of dropping your head onto the mat, let’s work with a block and drop back onto that.

    Step 1
    Flip a block to its tallest orientation, and place it against your toes as you kneel on your mat. Bring your palms together in front of your heart.Step1wm

    Steps 2 and 3
    Slowly begin to push your hips forward, and find strength in your legs, as you lift your chest toward the sky and bend back. Be mindful of your breath—it’s so easy to forget to breathe while backbending. Inhale and exhale deeply through your nose.
    Steps2and3

    Step 4
    Gently place the top of your head onto your block. If the block is currently beyond your reach, start with a higher surface—maybe a stool with a cushion. See if you can hold this position for a few deep breaths. To exit the pose, engage the core, engage the thighs, and slowly rise back to a kneeling position.Step4wm

    You CAN overcome your fear of dropbacks, one step at a time. Once you become comfortable with the block at its highest orientation, go ahead and flip the block onto one of its other edges to practice a deeper dropback. Let us know how you do.

     

  • Pushing Past Fear

    Pushing Past Fear

    One day, you will be given an incredible opportunity.  It may be a new job, or an acceptance into a great school, or an invitation to perform or speak in front of an audience.  Your friends will cheer, your family will feel great pride to hear about this new opportunity, and you will smile and thank everyone for the encouragement, but deep down inside, you will have a feeling of dread.  You will be afraid.

    TFMDancersLet me remind you now that with any great opportunity come feelings of unease…a fear of failure, a fear of success, fear of the unknown and feelings of inadequacy.  You may feel that you are being pushed so far past your comfort zone that you cannot succeed, but this is when you must remind yourself that you wouldn’t have been chosen for this great opportunity if others didn’t see your potential.  You CAN rise to meet this challenge, and you WILL thrive, if you just believe.

    This past week, Laura and I traveled to Boulder, Colorado to film five instructional yoga videos for Gaiam.  It was overwhelming to know that a company like Gaiam, with its vast wellness empire, would be interested in being affiliated with two yoga moms from New Jersey.  It all felt surreal, and it stirred up all sorts of doubt in our minds.  What if we didn’t sound good on camera?  What if no one liked the videos?  What if we are unable to project our true personalities because we are so nervous?  The insecurities were abundant, but we pushed forward anyway.  We planned our sequences, filmed test videos, chose our clothing, and boarded the flight to Boulder.

    TFMHollowbackWhat we found when we arrived at Gaiam just a few short hours later was comforting. The air was fresh, the surrounding mountains were picturesque, and the familiar stress of New York City was thousands of miles away.  We were greeted by friendly faces that felt more like a big family than a big company. This certainly was not the fearful, intimidating environment that I had pictured in my head.  Imagine if our fears stopped us from pursuing this opportunity?  We would have missed out on this amazing experience.

    Yes, the filming of the videos was still nerve-wracking.  And yes, it was hard work, but in the end, we tolerated the fears and feelings of discomfort, and we overcame them all. The feelings of inadequacy were just that—feelings. We were prepared, and what we brought to the table was enough.

    Sometimes, you just need to muster up the courage to move forward.  Push right through that comfort zone and into the unknown.  Take risks, overcome your fears, and you will see that you are much stronger and much more capable than you ever thought you could be.

    “Take the first step in faith. You don’t have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step.” – Martin Luther King, Jr.